How to make friends while traveling
PolinaSolo travel is a cool way to reset and get to know yourself better. But sometimes you really want to share emotions with someone else, right? We'll tell you how to make friends while traveling so you bring back not only souvenirs, but also new acquaintances. General tips will suit any type of vacation, and at the end, we've added a special section for those going on a resort holiday.
General tips: how to find friends on any trip
These simple rules work everywhere – from a hostel in the heart of a metropolis to a guesthouse in the mountains.
Choose the right place to stay
Hotels are comfortable, of course, but not very suitable for making acquaintances. The best way to find company is to stay in a hostel. Here, the atmosphere itself encourages communication: shared kitchens, lounge areas, joint parties. Don't be afraid to start a conversation first; ask where the person came from and what their plans are. Most likely, you'll quickly find common ground.
Another great option is Couchsurfing. You'll stay with a local who will show you the city from a non-touristy perspective and introduce you to their friends. This is the fastest way to fully immerse yourself in a new culture.
Use technology
In the 21st century, it's a sin not to use the benefits of civilization. There are tons of apps that can help you find company. And we're not just talking about dating apps (though they can also be useful if you're looking for romantic adventures).
- Meetup: search for events based on interests – from joint mountain hikes to pottery classes.
- Couchsurfing: here you can not only find accommodation but also attend traveler meetups organized by locals.
- Social media groups: look for groups like “Russians in Istanbul” or “Expats in Yerevan.” They often organize meetings and share useful tips.
Be open and curious
The easiest way to start a conversation is to show genuine interest. Smile, don't be afraid to ask questions. If you see someone trying to take a selfie in front of a landmark, offer your help. This is a great and unobtrusive way to start a dialogue.
Don't spend all your time on your phone, staring at the screen. Look around, and you'll see many other people who are just as open to communication.
Go on excursions and master classes
Group activities are the ideal place for making acquaintances. When you're engaged in a common activity, conversation starts naturally. Choose what genuinely interests you: a walking tour of the city, a cooking master class, or a surfing lesson. This way, you'll not only gain new experiences but also meet like-minded people. For example, on a beach in Sochi you can find stand-up paddleboarding lessons, and after the class, offer a new female or male acquaintance a cocktail.
Visit local bars and cafes
Choose establishments popular with locals, not just tourists. Sit at the bar – this shows you're open to conversation. The bartender can become your first friend in a new city and introduce you to other regulars. Ask them for advice on where else to go – and a conversation topic is already set.
Learn the language and local customs
Even a few phrases in the local language (“hello,” “thank you,” “how are you”) will make people more receptive to you. This shows your respect for their culture. Read about local traditions to avoid accidentally getting into an awkward situation. People appreciate it when foreigners are interested in their country.
Going on vacation to Thailand? Learn how to say hello (“sawasdee krap/kha”), and you'll see how warmly you'll be welcomed. And if you want to fly there, you can always buy tickets from Moscow to Bangkok and embark on an adventure.
Don't be afraid to be yourself
The main advice is to be natural. Don't try to appear as someone you're not. Sincerity is always appealing. How to make acquaintances while traveling? Just be yourself, enjoy the moment, and people will be drawn to you. Remember that your main goal is to enjoy the trip. And acquaintances will be a pleasant bonus.
Special case: how to make friends at an all-inclusive resort
A vacation at a hotel where everything is taken care of for you is relaxing. But what if you want to do more than just lie by the pool – you want to socialize? Here are some tips on how to make friends at an all-inclusive resort.
Participate in hotel activities
The animation team are your best friends. Morning yoga, aqua aerobics, beach volleyball, water polo, evening shows – all of this is designed for guests to meet each other. Don't be shy, join the games! In team sports, it's very easy to strike up a conversation and find company for the evening.
Be visible by the pool and on the beach
These are the main centers of social life at any resort. Bring a frisbee or a ball – it's a great excuse to suggest playing together. You can simply ask your sunbed neighbor to watch your belongings while you go for a swim. A simple “Thanks, great vacation, isn't it?” can be the start of an interesting conversation.
Use bars and common areas
In the evening, life buzzes at the bar. Sit at the counter, not at a separate table. The bartender can be a great conversationalist, and others will join in. Common lounge areas and terraces are also excellent places for informal communication.
Sign up for group excursions
Almost every hotel offers off-site tours: from trips to historical ruins to boat excursions. This is a guaranteed way to spend several hours in the company of other vacationers. Shared experiences and conversation topics will emerge naturally. Planning a trip to Turkey? Be sure to go on an excursion to Pamukkale. If you haven't decided where to fly yet, check out tickets for the Moscow – Antalya route – it's a classic for a great vacation.
It doesn't matter if you're looking for a new friend or want to meet someone for a romance at the resort, the main thing is to be open to the world. And then any trip will give you not only vivid impressions but also interesting people around you. By the way, if you're ready for new discoveries, check out tickets for the Moscow – Istanbul route; it's a great place for solo travel.
